Needed a clarification on a so called "controversial" topic by my lovely friend Swati Borda "Love happens only once , Rest is just Life".
To her, this is true! For me, its not!
And I say "Love vs Life" because thats what this topic of discussion gives an impression to me..! Love happens only once. All set now. Sit, relax. Because rest is all life. But where has love gone???
I do not agree to this because for me, love happens all the time. You may have "loved" someone deeply, but that person never valued that. Eventually you may start feeling low, then depressed and in the end this all won't matter. Now you move ahead in your life. New aims, new people, friends, and ho ho ho.. you again find someone with whom you think you can spend the rest of you life. Those same sweet feelings starts developing again. Isn't that love now?
I don't know where the line of infatuation ends and where love starts? Or is it just the term given by those who haven't found love yet. After all some grapes are always sour...
I say, till the day you live, you never stop loving..!
OK vishal...i get that...a new perception towards living a life...!!!but tell me one thing does it happens that the way you love someone very deeply for the first time...are your feelings that strong the way it was first before...!!!
ReplyDeleteWhen you find someone new in your life its first infatuation but you start feeling its love...you tell your heart ok this is the person i love and i will b happy with him or her...but actually in your subconscious mind you do so..... It takes time for you to reach d stage where the first person does not matters but that was the person for whom you were not required to tell ur mind or heart...it just happens...second time when u find your new love its may be for real may be not but it takes time to handle with your feelings..i still stay with what i said "love just happens once, rest is life"
somehow reading this comment of yours after long makes me think that whatever you are saying do have some percentage of truth in it!
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